Abortion survivor meets biological mom


melissa ohden abortion survivor meets momWhen Melissa Ohden’s mom left the abortion clinic more than 30 years ago, she thought her fetus was disposed of properly.

She was a 19-year-old college student and was told the baby in her womb would ruin her life. She was pressured to “terminate the pregnancy” quickly and “conveniently,” and she followed their advice, according to her testimonial video on Eternal Word Television Network’s YouTube channel.

But baby Melissa didn’t die from the saline infusion of toxic water that was injected into the amniotic sack to kill her. She was removed from the womb very much alive.

Melissa weighed less than three pounds. After nurses sustained her with hospital care, she was adopted into a loving home.

abortion survivor forgives mom“God had a plan,” she says.

Today Melissa is married and an outspoken critic of abortion who has testified before Congress. She documents the trials and travails of finding out the truth of her origin in the stirring book, You Carried Me: A Daughter’s memoir.

At 14, Melissa was told about her adoption. But the news that her biological mother had tried to kill her hit like a tsunami. Negative emotions were born and took root.

Under the crushing rejection of her biological mother, Melissa spun out of control with bulimia, alcohol and sexuality — all coping mechanisms to deal with the raw pain.

“It absolutely devastated my life,” she says. “I didn’t want anyone else to know how much I was hurting.”

melissa ohdenHow did she break the cycle of self-destruction?

“It was the grace of God that saved me,” she says. “I had to be willing to wake up and say, ‘I’m not going to do that’” anymore.

As she grew, married, and had children, Melissa kept thinking about her biological mom. Who was she? Under what circumstances did she resort to such a drastic procedure? What was she like?

She embarked on a quest to find her mother.

“I loved her,” she says. “My love for her deepens year after year. Now I know the truth of how she was forced into that abortion.”

Initially through correspondence, she began to get to know her mother, and she came to understand and forgive her mom, who suffered 30 years of agonizing guilt, hiding the painful memory of killing her child.

Her journey led her embrace her mother and feel empathy for all women who feel cornered into abortion, she says. Read the rest: abortion survivor meets her mom.

One response to “Abortion survivor meets biological mom

  1. Yernasia Quorelios

    ◇ – Diamond Hard – ◇

    ◇ So in This Duality We Have Anti-Abortion and Pro-Choice; it’s Crystal Clear Clarity that I AM BOTH!!! ergo I Say CHOOSE!!! to Kill It or CHOOSE!!! To Keep It and Raise It Resentfully and Abusively or Have It Adopted…one thing I AM Certain of is that I Hate Religion and Any Other Form of Organised Control like Government; it’s just that I Don’t Like BEING TOLD WHAT TO DO!!! BEING YELLED AT!!! Because I YELL!!! Back and DESTROY!!!, I Like to THINK!!! for MySelf so I Guess ALL Religious Sheep will consider Me Possessed by Demons…a State I Much Prefer to Hypocritical Sunday Christian; take this with a Pinch of Salt EveryOne, after ALL God has Given Free Will, Free Speech is The BirthRight of ALL of Us

    ◇ – Diamond Hard – ◇

    …◇◇◇…

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