Joseph the jilted decided to NOT humiliate Mary after she obviously cheated — she was pregnant, and he knew it wasn’t him.
Then Joseph her husband, being a just man, and not willing to make her a public example, was minded to put her away privily — Matt 1:9.
BEFORE an angel had told him to go ahead and marry Mary, EVEN BEFORE a miraculous vision assured him this was an act of God and not his fiance fooling around, BEFORE ANY OF THESE ASSURANCES Joseph, BEING A JUST MAN, opted to not shame her.
The revenge people do through social media these days makes me cringe. Nothing good comes of it.